KNOWLEDGE IS POWER
Breastfeeding is a process that needs to be adjusted. You should adjust to the fact that you will feed in this way even during pregnancy. Many lactation consultants even run similar courses. But practical skills are acquired already in the process, after the birth of a child. It is good if there is a person nearby who will advise and help. But it is worth preparing yourself to be able to constructively, but politely and confidently explain to the rest of the "advisors" with bottles, fools and mixtures that it will not be their way.
WHY NEED A NURSING PILLOW
The answer to this question is very simple. It's comfort. The comfort of a young mother. Comfort and safety of the baby. Yes, you can really do without it. BUT - it is more convenient with her. Isn't that an argument? A woman and a baby have just gone through a complex physiological process - childbirth. It may not be comfortable for a woman to sit yet, responsibility has fallen on her, she needs to learn to understand the baby, it all requires effort, patience, and strength. And it is worth doing so that the time of feeding is not a torment, but becomes a pleasure and a rest. Sometimes it's the two of you.
HOW TO USE A NURSING PILLOW
Girl, your task with the pillow is to find YOUR pose. Do not be afraid to experiment and find what is most comfortable for you. This is the first tip from Papaella.
A sitting position will help to establish breastfeeding. If you are a beginner, it is for you. At the first stage, it is important for you that the baby learns to grasp the breast correctly. Correct grip prevents the formation of cracks on the nipples, ensures effective sucking and good weight gain by the baby. So, one end of the pillow under mom's lower back. At the highest point of the pillow, in the middle, there is a support for your hand. At the bend of the elbow - the baby's head. The body of the child can be on the pillow, but with the tummy turned towards you, close contact. Your feet also have support. You sit as a queen, resting on the back of the couch/chair and a pillow. DO NOT lean forward. You are relaxed, not tense. The baby is also comfortable.
When your child has already learned to do the right grip, you can try other poses. Twist your legs in the Turkish style in a sitting position. The pillow is in the same position, and you will have a cozy, warm nest.
Try lying down. Ideal for night feedings. In this position, use one edge of the pillow under your head, the other between your legs, as it was during pregnancy. Baby on the barrel, close tummy to tummy contact again. And the pillow covers the baby's back, hugging it to you.
Rotate the pillow as you see fit to make it comfortable for you and your baby. Any pose that provides it will be correct. Enjoy breastfeeding, it's so sweet.
You can read what nursing pillows are like HERE.